Rx of Life

MIA.....

2012-01-10T11:02:00.002-06:00

Yep, that's me. Since getting smart phones, I can say we just don't do much computer stuff. I can check email, Facebook, read blogs, etc all from my phone, and sadly that's just what I do. But it occurred to me that the 2 people that read my blog might wonder how we are and what the happenings are. So for you, a quick update.

School is about half way over for the boys, in fact 2nd 9 week report cards come home today. I know that the boys both made straight A's once again and I could not be more proud. I know how hard they worked to get those grades and it makes me happy to see the work pay off. We are about to start basketball with Will. He has been practicing for a few months and the first game is this weekend. He is playing with school friends and our amazing assistant principal is the coach. I simply could not ask for better when it comes to him. Will is enjoying the process and learning a lot. He got drums for Christmas and as crazy as they make me some days, he is loving them. I hear the improvement everyday. I am glad that he is doing something musical. He has made great friends and we had a couple of them over to watch the Cotton Bowl last weekend, it was so much fun to hear them call the Hogs and for us to get the BIG WIN! I had a some happy boys at my house!

Alex is, well, Alex! He is so full of energy it makes me tired trying to keep up! HA! He is really enjoying school. He has made some great new friends this year. One of them got to stay over during the football game too. They didn't watch much football,but we had plenty of superheroes flying around here. I just love all the noise that boys bring! He is gearing up for soccer in a couple of months. He wants to give it a try again, so we will see. I think he is looking forward to something that no one else does, something he can call his own. Just a week ago he turned 7! I can't believe time has gone so quickly. He is growing up so fast. He had his party at the church with a bounce house and some of his buddies. It was the first year he didn't include Will's bigger friends, he just wanted "his" friends. I am glad that he has his own set of buddies, I think that is so important for him.

Mike and I are keeping up with them the best we can! Parenting is not for the faint of heart, that's for sure. It sure is a rewarding job and I am so glad I get the privilege to do it. I really am going to try to update at least weekly. We are still here, busy and happy. May your 2012 bring you blessings abundantly and may His grace cover you!
The Stafford's

9-11-11

2011-09-11T20:36:00.003-05:00

Today we remember....My dad was in a parade honoring those lost on that day in 2001 and to honor those who served and still serve to protect our freedom and to keep us safe here at home. We are so proud to be called Americans.

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2011-08-29T09:49:00.002-05:00

School is in full swing, baseball is starting for fall, laundry, groceries, family time, date night.... you get the picture. The amazing thing to me is, we remain sane, everything gets done and I feel pretty well adjusted.
Aside from the happenings in my own house, my family as a whole is facing new challenges. Things are happening that no one "planned", but I have learned in my life, that sometimes, the best things aren't "planned". We go with the flow, we make adjustments and in the end, the purpose shows itself. We have to be open to possiblities and remember not to judge too harshly. Because in the end, it all works itself out, and we go with it. What other choice do we have? So in the mean time, we decide how we handle it. With grace and dignity? Like a spoiled child?
We also have to remember and realize, that not everything is about us. My family's situation, it doesn't directly affect me, indirectly, yes. But the decisions that are made, the end result, those aren't mine. I have a really important job though. I get to be supportive and loving. I get to listen and love. In the end, I get to care, not judge. And while it's happening, I offer all the love I have, in whatever form that needs to take. Cause you see, it's not about me, I am just honored to be apart of it.

Back to School....

2011-08-16T08:37:00.003-05:00

We went on vacation last week, but I will post about that later. Yesterday was the first day of school for both boys. Will started 4th grade, he has the privelage of having the same teacher he had last year. She moved from 3rd grade to 4th, and he was placed back in her room. We could not be more excited! She is a wonderful lady and Will loved the 3rd grade. We are looking forward to a great 4th grade year.

Alex started 1st grade. He has the same teacher Will had in first grade. We love Mrs. Grice. Alex was very excited to be in her class. He has some friends from last year in his class as well, so he was excited about that too. He is really looking forward to 1st grade. He like to read and he LOVES math, so he wants to do lots of those.

It is really hard for me to believe that I have a 1st grader and a 4th grader. I blinked and they weren't babies anymore. They are both doing so well and after today, I am sure we will start the drop off line again. I know I should be thrilled that they are independent and don't "need" me, but the mommy's heart in me is sad. There are days I would love babies forever, but not really. Ha! So here's to my big boys. We are looking forward to a great year!

Long time....

2011-08-08T07:50:00.003-05:00

It has been a really long time since I have updated. I read a ton of blogs but never take a minute to post on this one.
We are all doing well. The boys start back to school a week from today, summer has flown by! We are enjoying this last week of freedom doing some much needed relaxing and family time. Mike is on vacation this week, so we are spending time together.
My hope is to keep up with this better this year. With a 4th grader and a 1st grader, it's bound to get exciting at the Stafford's! I hope the 3 of you that are still reading, will continue, promise to do better!!

10 Years...

2010-11-11T08:34:00.003-06:00

I can not believe that I have been married for 10 years! Wow, 2 kids, a house, cars, bills, and more love than I could have ever imagined. We met on a blind date- yes, they work- and I never looked back. I remember that night so vividly in my mind, he picked me up, dinner and the movies. What stands out to me are 2 things, he held my hand as we left the movies theater, it took my breath away. When we got to my house he walked me to the door and said goodnight. I spent the next day wondering if he would call, if I would get to see him again. He called and everyday after that, with the exception of about 4, we saw each other.

8 months later he asked me to be his wife and with more certantity than ever before I said yes. We got married surrounded by friends and our amazing familes, and here we are, because of our love and their support, 10 years later.

Our road has not always been a smooth one. We have had bumps and as Mike's card said this morning, even some wrecks, but we have recovered and kept moving forward. It's important to us, it's worth it. I am looking forward to many wonderful years ahead. Happy Annivesary to you my darling... I love you~ Always....

Happy Halloween 2010

2010-10-31T20:49:00.001-05:00

From Will and Alex to you! Hope you enjoyed your night as much as we enjoyed ours!!

Stafford Family Update....

2010-09-06T15:35:00.003-05:00

School is in full swing and the boys are really loving it. Alex is loving kindergarten. He has Mrs Beeson, she was Will's teacher when he was in K. He has made new friends and really likes to go to school. He was ready to be dropped off in the car line the first day and was made when I wouldn't do it! He is going that way now and he LOVES it.

Will is in 3rd grade and has Ms Merrell. We are really pleased with his placement as well. She seems to fit his personality really well. He has several friends from years past in his class and that makes it all the better! They also have a snake and a lizard in their classroom. Sounds yucky to me, but hey, what do I know!? LOL

Miks is enjoying his job. It is a lot better for his back then jobs have been before. He has more freedom to sit and stand at will, without doing too much of either.

I still have my sweet Caroline two days and week and in a few months we will add her new brother! Her mommy is due in December, so we will have a full house a couple of times a week and we love it! I started the gym this last week and am really looking forward to getting back in shape. It gives me something to fill in a little bit of empty space, as little of that as I have, and makes me feel great.

We are doing well, we are blessed and

I Blinked......

2010-08-18T22:29:00.000-05:00

8th Birthday

2010-07-14T20:44:00.002-05:00

8 years ago today, the Lord blessed our lives with a sweet, 7lb 10oz, bouncing baby boy. He was the greatest blessing our lives had ever known. I feel so blessed to be his mom. One of his teachers described him something like this: Will LOVES to play with kids. He walks onto a playground and he doesn't see color, gender, good or bad. He doesn't care if you are rich or poor, or somewhere in between, he simply sees kids. A bunch of different playmates. His Mimi says he is an angel, with no wings, who has been given to us to love. I believe both. He is my angel, my first born. He is full of life, a smile when you need it and a shy "I love you", with a little hug to go with it. Not overpowering, just Will.
Happy Birthday to my Doodle Bug, always my Will.

Summer is here....

2010-06-21T12:57:00.003-05:00

Well, baseball is over, summer is here along with REALLY hot weather! We completed t-ball and baseball last week, along with getting to got to church camp for the first time. Will had a blast. We are getting back into our routine around here and getting into that summer groove....

We celebrated Father's Day yesterday with our dads and Mike. We are so blessed to be surrounded by wonderful men. Mike is an amazing dad and the boys are so in love with daddy! I feel so overwhelmingly grateful that God saw fit to bless me and our boys with Mike. I hope we made his day special.

We are in gear getting ready for Will's birthday. He is going to be 8 in July! Anyone who knows my family, knows that 8th birthday parties are BIG deals around here! He is getting excited and I love to plan a party! Be Blessed this week and try to stay cool!

The Stafford's

World Vision

2010-06-03T09:41:00.002-05:00

I want to take a minute to share with the 5 of you who read my thoughts(ha) about something that happend this week. Thanks for reading!

About 3 years ago at a Women of Faith Confrence, I decided to partner with World Vision and sponser a child. I got to choose the one I wanted, I picked a little boy named Notice. He was born around the same time as Will and I thought that would be a great way for Will to understand our helping those in need. For only $35 a month, we got to help this wonderful little boy. We sent letters, he sent letters. We got updates and were able to do special things for him at the holiday times of the year. It is a precious gift, not only for him, but for us. I recieved a call this week from World Vision. There was a flood in Notice's village. He was asleep in his home, when the rains collapsed his roof. He was taken to the hospital and they did surgery. He was released, but a few days later he had to return due to complications. He did not make it when he went in the 2nd time. Notice went home to be with Jesus. I know he is in a much better place, free from suffering, but our hearts here on earth are saddened.

I am not a spokes person for Worold Vision, just someone who believes in their cause and what they do. We are looking for another child to sponser, we want to help in anyway we can. If you would like to help, you can go to their website and pick your own child to help. It is such a great organization. I do hope you will consider it.
Be Blessed....

www.worldvision.org

Wordless Wednesday...

2010-06-02T09:11:00.002-05:00

Grass won't grow there....

2010-05-14T16:07:00.002-05:00

So I mowed the yard today, front and back. We have never had a lot of grass, but it has gotten better in the last few years. But now, well, the front is turning into dirt again. Why? Well, we put up a basketball goal. Yea, in the front yard. So, now, little feet and big feet, small basketballs and big ones, tromp thru the grass. So now, it's dirt. So today when the wind was blowing the dirt up and around me, and I couldn't get to the very edge of the drive way, since the goal is there and all, it occured to me. Grass won't grow there. Not anytime soon anyway, the feet and the balls, they keep it from coming up. But the next thought made me a little teary eyed...what happens when it will grow there?

Happy Mother's Day....

2010-05-09T22:29:00.003-05:00

When I was a little girl I wanted to be a teacher, but as I got older all I wanted to be was a mommy. When I met Mike, a few dates in, I told him that it was my goal to stay at home and be a mom. He smiled and said he thought that could be arranged. Here I am, living my dream. Doesn't seem like much to some, but it is everything to me. I am so blessed to be able to be here in the afternoons and here all summer. I get to be with them for school field trips and awards assemblies, all the big stuff and the little stuff too. I know that they will get bigger and I won't be cool anymore, but I am going to enjoy this while I can. Someday I will blink and the time will be gone....My boys, 2 of my lifes biggest blessings. I hope your mother's day was wonderful, mine sure was. Be Blessed....

Wordless Wednesday....

2010-04-07T15:21:00.001-05:00

Happy Easter....

2010-04-04T20:08:00.002-05:00

We would like to say Happy Easter, from our family to yours! May you be blessed and always remember: HE is RISEN, HE is RISEN INDEED!

Tuesday Fun....

2010-03-23T15:12:00.003-05:00

It's Spring Break! We are having a great time so far. Hanging out close to home but spending time with friends and family! We had a great day yesterday with Ike and Axton, we played downtown on a super cool playground! We walked the Junction Bridge and had ice cream in the River Market. We ended our day with a camp out at home and marshmallows in the back yard. Even camped out in the living room. Today we met friends at the school playground and then had McDonalds for lunch. It is a great week for spring break, the weather is beautiful! Here a couple of pictures from the last couple of days. I feel so blessed to get to spend some quality time with the boys!

Sick....

2010-03-18T16:46:00.002-05:00

Kind of the story of my house these days! Will started out the week with a sore throat and a fever, went to the doctor, not strep (PRAISE THE LORD), just a cold, it would resolve itself. Of course he had fever most of the day, so he was out of school on Tuesday too. Well, wouldn't ya know it? Alex woke up Wednesday morning burning up! He ran fever off and on on Wednesday but seem to be better by about 3, so we went to church. By the time we got home he as feverish again and feeling really bad! So off to bed hoping he would wake better....Nope, he got up with a fever of 102 and off to the doc we go. He had a headache, stomach-ache and a cough. The doctor said it was the same cold stuff Will had, so treat the symptons. Well, I know he feels bad cause we are missing soccer tonight to rest! Wow, I will be glad when everyone is well and spring is here! Hope your family feels better than mine...LOL

Be Blessed, we still are, it could be so much worse.

Basketball ends and Soccer Begins....

2010-03-09T20:17:00.004-06:00

Will played his first season of basketball this year. He is playing for the YMCA here in NLR and we have really enjoyed it. He got a great coach and I think he has learned some basic basketball skills and made some new friends. Last Saturday he scored his first points, and he was so excited. His team has gone undefeated. That always makes for a great time! His last games are this week and I know he will be sad to see it end, but baseball is just around the corner.

We have now entered Spring Soccer Season. Alex is playing and having a blast! Last week he made his first goal, the minute he made it we saw it all come together for him. He decided this was a sport he could play! He ended up making 4 goals in the game. Another game tonight and he made 3 goals! He is really enjoying playing and we LOVE getting to watch him make something of his very own. Baseball starts really soon and we are gearing up for that. For now we are enjoying the end of basketball and the start of soccer and soon we will move into baseball. Man, I love being a mom to boys! We are so blessed and I don't want to take that for granted....

Thankful Tuesday.....

2010-02-23T16:31:00.003-06:00

I haven't posted in a while, so I decided that I would post about one of the most important men in my life. This is me and Mike at Christmas at my grandmother's. I am not always the most patient woman, I don't always say the right things, but the one thing I know at the end of everyday, he loves me. Just like I am, flaws and all, he loves me. 10 years ago the Lord saw fit to bless my life with this man. I feel less then deserving, but I am so thankful his is mine and I am his.

I love you honey, I always will....thank you for being mine!

Snow Day.....Or maybe an Ice day?

2010-01-30T10:11:00.004-06:00

Clay and Will getting ready to sled!

Mike and the boys headed out on the 4 wheeler! LOADS of FUN!

We spent yesterday inside and it's looking the same for today. We did make a Walmart run before it got too bad yesterday, and a stop over for pizza, before we came home and rode the 4 wheeler and played in the white stuff.

We went down to Tom and Steph's (so glad they live close) and Mike pulled the kids on a sled from the back of his 4 wheeler. They had a blast, but boy were we cold! We have plans for more of the same today. Thinking about making some chili for supper and making another fire this afternoon. We have enjoyed being "stuck" in the house together. We don't get to hang out all together very often, with school, work, basketball and all of life's other fun stuff, so a few days where we have to is a welcome change. We hope your snow days have been fun, be blessed...

Globetrotters....

2010-01-21T08:40:00.002-06:00

We took the kids to see the Globetrotters last night. They had a blast. Mike and I have both been several times in our lives, but it was the first time for both the boys. We let Will invite a friend, which made it that much better for him. Here are a few pictures of our night. The Globetrotters are always great entertainment, and I know you will be suprised, THEY WON! ha

Be Blessed....

Wordless Wednesday...Sweetness/Silliness!

2010-01-20T15:33:00.002-06:00

Happy Birthday Alex....

2009-12-30T10:29:00.004-06:00

Yesterday Alex turned 5....WOW, where did all the time go? He had a great day complete with a dump truck party on Tuesday night. He is such a little ball of energy and life. We are so blessed to be his parents. He woke up and wanted to know if he looked five, he said he didn't "feel" any different, so he wanted to know if he looked different! He is too funny! He got a Gator for his birthday, a big ride on toy, but he calls it his crocodile. The stuff he comes up with is great.

We are getting ready to celebrate the new year and I remember so well 5 years ago, being at home with a new, blonde haired, blue eyed baby boy. We feel so blessed to be getting to spend this new year with him once again! Happy Birthday to the most wonderful 5 year we know! WE love you Alex!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-27T15:21:00.003-06:00

We have really enjoyed our holiday this year! We got to spend time with all of our families and even spent some time with friends. The boys said that Santa was very good to them this year, I guess they were pretty good this year. ha

We are preparing now for Alex's 5th birthday, which is SO hard for me to believe. My baby boy is turning 5 on Tuesday. We are looking forward to a great time with family and friends. We are so thankful this year for great friends and family. I feel so very blessed to be apart of some many amzing people's lives. We trust your holiday was a good one, be blessed this week and enjoy the moments....

Tis the Season....

2009-12-03T10:25:00.002-06:00

This is one of my favorite times of the year. Not just the hustle and bustle, although I must say, I really love all that. I love the reason for this season. It is amazing to think that God sent his Son in the most precious form, a baby, to save the world! Wow, what a great thought. So in the middle of trees and gifts, let us remember to stop and remember the real reason for this most wonderful season! Be Blessed....

Happy Thanksgiving...

2009-11-26T09:10:00.002-06:00

Happy Thanksgiving from the Stafford's to you! May your day be blessed! We are so thankful and so blessed to have you, our family and our friends in our lives! We love you!!

9 Years....

2009-11-11T00:33:00.003-06:00

November 11, 2000- The day I married the man I searched my whole life for. Believe me, there were plenty of frogs before I found my prince. LOL
We met on a blind date in July of 1999 and when he walked me to the door that night, I knew no matter what happened, I would never be the same. I quickly learned that it was because I had met my best friend. I know that no matter what I have going on, regardless of what it is, when I come home at night, I come home to my best friend. It was like that from the start and I have no doubt that it will be like that for our lifetimes. I am blessed and I never want to take a day for granted.

Mike, I love you, for being my best friend, an amazing dad to our boys, and the love of my life. Happy 9 years, I look forward to the rest of our lives....

Wordless Wednesday....

2009-11-04T16:06:00.000-06:00

2009-10-23T08:05:00.002-05:00

Because blogs are better with pictures, here they are! Alex had his soccer party and got his trophy. He is so proud! The bottom picture is the boys together at the party. Yes, they really are that sweet most of the time!

We have been busy around here lately, but aren't we always. Will's school had their fall festival last week, I am in charge of the Silent Auction, so we are glad we have that behind us. This week is Alex's school festival, but the pressure for me is not as great for that one. We look forward to going and seeing what great games we can win!

Yesterday was my birthday, it was all in all a great day! Mike was home and those are always my favorite days! We went to lunch at my new favorite place, Panera Bread in NLR. I LOVE this place!! I started my new "job" this week. I am keeping a 9 week old 2 days a week. It is lots of fun and little girls are a new thing for us around here, but we love it.

Mike got a new job. He is going to work for a new Nursing Home side of USA Drug. We are very excited about this new endeavor. He has his first business trip in November. We are so proud of Mike and his work ethic. I know he will be great! We are well, I read blogs everyday, I am just not the best at posting for us! Hope this finds you well, Be Blessed!

Alex singing....

2009-10-12T22:03:00.002-05:00

This is Alex, singing Billie Jean, by Michael Jackson. This is one of his new favorite songs! Enjoy!!

Soccer...

2009-09-12T12:21:00.002-05:00

So it seems only fair that since we blog about baseball, we should also blog about soccer. Alex had his frst soccer game on Thursday night. It was so much fun to watch! He had a blast and with some work I think he will start to "get it" and have even more fun.
He got to play quite a bit and has made some friends already on his team. Alex thrives in a crowd and so this proves to be well suited for him. He almost made a couple of goals, but not making them just made him play harder. We don't know much about soccer, but we are learning. As long as he wants to play we will cheer from the sidelines.

I am so proud of my boys, they are growing into great people and we are blessed to be their parents. We are still going strong here in "Staffordland", and we wouldn't have it any other way
Be Blessed...

BUSY!

2009-09-04T15:49:00.002-05:00

(I think it is more fun to read if you have sweet faces to look at! My Boys... )

So school is in full swing and we are busy around here! Alex started soccer last night. He met his team and had his first "practice"! He did so well, he listened and tried his best. I think he is going to enjoy soccer. It's new for me, but I can learn.

Labor Day weekend is upon us now, no big plans. Travs game tonight, the Razorback marching band is playing the National Anthem and fireworks after the game. The kids are looking forward to it. We plan in doing NOTHING tomorrow. It's our first weekend home in forever and we plan on staying in. Friends coming over on Sunday to eat and hang out. Not a lot going on, but we will have a great time no less. I haven't been great about blogging, you would think with no job outside of my house I would have more time. Funny how that works, I feel like I have less time. Oh well, I am so enjoying getting to be here during the day, the house is staying cleaner and I am spending time at the school helping out. Life is good and we are blessed.... Keep blogging, I enjoy reading about you!

Be Blessed...

First Day of 2nd grade....

2009-08-19T15:40:00.002-05:00

I have a second grader....my mind is having a hard time making that real. My heart is too! He did so well today, I knew he would. He is no longer my crying 5 year old who didn't want to go to kindergarten, he is a big 7 year old, who thinks school is great!
I am so glad. We have a great teacher, Mrs. Hoggard. She is new to our school and I fell in love with her when I met her. Will has been so blessed with great teachers since he started school. He said he had a good day and is enjoying making new friends. I think this is going to be a great year.

First Day of School....

2009-08-12T17:42:00.002-05:00

Well, today was Alex's first day of Pre-K. He is such a big boy and loves going to school so much. I dropped him off at 7:50a and picked him up at 2:30p. They said he did great, I had no doubt that he would.

Funny thing though, when I picked him up he only had one sock on. His teacher met me at the door and told that there was story there! Apparently my kid found the ant pile! The crawled onto his sock, "lots of 'em" (says Alex), so he sat down and took his sock off and left it for the ants to continue playing on! Mrs Brady didn't know it was Alex's sock, so when she was called over to see it, she threw it away! I laughed so hard! Alex said he didn't need a sock covered in ants! I can't blame him. So he had one sock on and one off when I picked him up! He told me all about his day and even got "treasure"! What a first day! I am so proud of him, he says that in a couple of weeks he wants me to drop him off, NOT walk him in! He is so big, I feel so blessed to be his mom! Will starts next week, so we will recap his day then. Be Blessed....

Air Conditioners, School, and Other Ramblings...

2009-08-08T09:02:00.002-05:00

Okay, so this week has been a rough one. We discovered last Sunday that our a/c was leaking water...into the living room floor! Not fun! So, we look to find the source, locate and commence sucking up water. After 3 estimates on Monday and Tuesday, we have someone come and fix it on Wednesday, Thursday, and some Friday. (it took longer than he thought) Our air IS working again, there was one night and most of a day when it was pretty warm in the house, between 81-88 degrees. Remember it was 100 outside.... So, here we are. Saturday is here, the house is cool and life is back to normal, whatever that is.

Alex had open house on Tuesday, which was also Mike's birthday. He had to work, so the boys and I grilled steaks for dinner and had cake when he got home. We went and met Alex's teachers, who we think we are going to LOVE. School starts on Wednesday for him, Will starts the 19th. We are getting in school mode. Earlier bedtimes, back packs are ready, lunch box food purchased. I can't believe the summer is gone. It seems to have gone quickly this time. I really enjoyed getting to be home with the boys, I feel so blessed to have that opportunity. Here is a picture from the week, cause I think blogs are more fun if you get to see a picture! Be Blessed...

Home Again....

2009-07-30T09:41:00.003-05:00

Well, we made it! 5 days at the wonderful beach, with rain on only one of them and that was after we made it to the beach and pool! Our boys had a blast and I hope the youth did too. We feel so honored to be asked to plan these trips and then get to go on them with great people. Thanks guys! We ate, we laughed, we played, and all in all enjoyed the company of each other. We were missing one or two, but we understand what kept them from going. I hope they know they were missed!

Back to regular life now. School starts in a matter of a couple of weeks for Alex and only 3 for Will. We are getting ready to wind our summer down and relax for a little while. For today, I will unpack and enjoy the rain... Be Blessed!

Gulf Shores....

2009-07-24T21:02:00.003-05:00

We made it this afternoon around 4:15p. We left about 5 this morning. Long trip but lots of fun. Richard and Jacob kept us entertained by singing over the 2 way radios that we took. We knew they could rap?!? We have such a great group of kids and we are honored to get to spend this time with them.

We have eaten dinner, done our Walmart run and now realxing, playing games and enjoying the company of one another. Beach fun for tomorrow and more time together! I plan to keep you up to date as we are here. Pictures to come tomorrow! Be Blessed and thanks again for your support!

New Look...

2009-07-21T08:19:00.002-05:00

Okay, so we are playing around with the look of the blog. We like it for now. We are packing up this week to go to Orange Beach on Friday. We are taking some of the youth from our church. We are looking forward to it, we have such a fun group and I know we and they will have a blast!

Alex started soccer camp yesterday. He loved it. He was supposed to go this morning, but it's raining here, so we are playing the wait and see game. Looks like I will have a soccer player in the fall though. Will wants to sign up for basketball, so sports will continue! We love it. Keeps me busy and I love watching the boys do things they enjoy.

Just wanted to give a quick update....Be Blessed

7 Years Ago.....

2009-07-14T09:05:00.002-05:00

7 years ago today the Lord saw fit to change our lives, Will was born and we are forever blessed.

Will is a sweet natured, big hearted, wonderful little boy. He lives to play all things sports related- except for soccer, which he reminds us of when we bring it up! He is funny, he is a great big brother to Alex and a sweet friend. I can't believe that he is going into the 2nd grade. It seems like yesterday I put him in a stroller for the first time to go to the mall. To my first born, may your day be all you hope for and this next year be the best one yet! We Love You!

Happy Birthday Will!

Happy 4th of July...

2009-07-04T16:32:00.002-05:00

We spent our day at home...It has been wonderful! Mike cooked ribs, we had fries, hush puppies and brownies for dessert. The kids have played in the back yard and we have enjoyed each other as a family.

We hope your 4th was blessed! May we never forget why we are able to celebrate this amazing day. Thanks to all the men and women who fight for our freedom, we are so proud of you!

Summer Time, Weddings, and Father's Day...

2009-06-22T09:04:00.003-05:00

Wow, we are quite the busy crew! I think I said that in my last post. I love staying at home and this last week was the perfect week to start. We had some dear friends get married on Saturday, we went swimming last week, Mike even got to go. Father's Day was yesterday and we celebrated with good food and family, what can be better!

We are preparing for our week today by staying in and cleaning house and doing laundry! But I wanted to check in and show you some precious pictures I took this weekend. I think I am going to take some photography classes, I really enjoy it! Be Blessed....

BUSY....

2009-06-11T07:16:00.002-05:00

Okay, not a good excuse, but the only one I have! We have started summer around here and I am in my last few days of work. I gave my notice and I feel so blessed to be getting to come "back home" to stay with the boys! Monday is my last day!

Will finished up school last week, he is now a 2nd grader. Wow, time flies... He made it all year with Straight A's. I know it is only the first grade, but we are proud none the less. We have been swimming already this summer and are looking forward to some great fun since mommy gets to be home with them.

Alex doesn't really get what summer means, he thinks he is going to school to see all his friends, he packs his back pack almost daily with stuff to show his friends. Too cute.

Mike took a little mini vacation and we redid our office last week too. It looks great and I sit here typing from our "new" office. He did a great job, with a little of my help. We are proud of how it turned out. He is busy with work and trying to take it as easy as he can, his back is still touch and go, but better more often than not anymore. Okay, I think that updates us all. I will close with a picture of my sweeties...Be Blessed...

My Reasons....

2009-05-11T18:18:00.002-05:00

No matter how bad it seems, or what seems to be going on, this is what makes it a better place to be. These little faces, getting bigger every day, are the reason I do all the things I do. Plus, the wonderful man they call daddy. Hope your mother's day was as spectacular as mine! Be Blessed...

Happy Mother's Day

2009-05-10T07:32:00.000-05:00

Happy Mother's Day to all you amazing women out there! Celebrate the day with your family and know how apperciated you are! Be Blessed....

Too big...

2009-05-01T14:36:00.002-05:00

This morning I took Alex to school just like every Friday since August...but not like any Friday ever before. When we pulled into the school lot he asked me to take him through the drop off line, you know, like the big kids. My heart started to break.... I told him he was too little to drop off, he informed he was not too little, he is 4 years old!! So, I parked, he got out put his back pack on, kissed me and said he would walk in by himself. I started to follow, he turned around and told me to stop, he would see me after school. I stood there as he bounded through the doors and down the hall. He went to the right place, put his back away and started to play. I peeked in, so he couldn't see me, and then left for home.....

I don't have babies anymore, I am not sure I am strong enough to do this...Who knew it would happen so fast?

First Grade Bug Project

2009-04-29T11:30:00.002-05:00

Will had his first "project" for school. It was due today, so we finished up last night and he took it in this morning. He decided to do a fire ant. Here he is this morning before school. He was so proud of his work and we are so proud of him!

Bad Blogger!

2009-04-28T17:25:00.002-05:00

I am a bad blogger, life has been happening and I lost track of this! Sorry, I know that all 4 of you that read have wondered where I went! LOL

Baseball started and we are in full swing. I decided I wanted to coach Alex's t-ball team. I am having a blast, and I think Alex finally thinks "girls can be coaches too"! He is so funny.

Will is playing his 2nd year of pitching machine and he loves it. He has a really sweet man for a coach and we love his family. We have good teams for both the boys and are really pleased with our season this far.

I am still working part time, although I hope to be able to finish that up in the next few weeks and come back home to stay! I want to spend the summer with the boys and then in the fall I am going to keep an infant 2 days a week here at the house. I am really excited, it is going to be a girl and we are looking forward to it! Mike is still working as hard as ever, he is helping coach Will's team on the Mondays he gets off early. He planted our garden this year with a little help from his dad. We have tomatoes and okra, and several peppers and some squash. I look forward to all of that this summer. Nothing like veggies from the back yard. I am trying my hand at herbs. I have rosemary and basil growing back there too. We are busy, but we are blessed. Thanks for reading about us. I will do my best to keep a better blog! Be Blessed...

Praying for Stellan...

2009-04-20T21:18:00.002-05:00

Please help me pray for this little boy. I started reading this blog a little while ago and he is in need of prayers, the more the better. Thanks!

http://www.mycharmingkids.net/

From the Stafford Family....

2009-04-12T07:26:00.002-05:00

Happy Easter! May you celebrate the death and resurrection of our Lord! Be Blessed...

Pictures

2009-04-08T09:56:00.002-05:00

Just a few from the HAPPIEST PLACE ON EARTH!

We are back...

2009-04-03T09:22:00.002-05:00

Okay, we have been back for a week and I haven't posted! Internet has been down since we got home. We are running on a wing and prayer! Wow, life was super busy when we got back. Birthday parties, ball practice, and tuxedos fittings. Will is in a wedding this weekend, can't wait to see him and Mike all dressed up. Will is the ring "boy" and Mike is an usher. Should be fun.

We had a blast in Disney World. The kids loved flying and had a great time once we arrived. Will was able to play basketball at the resort, so he was thrilled. Plus we saw some of our cousins and got to spend some time with them, so all in all a great trip. We were sad to come home, vacations always go too fast.

Since coming home, life is still happening! We have been busy with ball season starting and since both boys are playing I have entered a whole new level of mommyhood! We will survive, I think! Here are a few pictures from our travels. Hope my blogging friends are well! Be Blessed...

Post #100 and other great things...

2009-03-12T21:16:00.002-05:00

Today has been a big day for Will. Tonight he was Doc in the first grade fairy tale program at his school. This is one of the biggest things the school does throughout the year. The kids love it and the parents too! We were so proud as we sat and watched our big boy do his part so well. Here are a few pictures of our little star! We went for ice cream afterwards. All in all a great day for the Stafford's!

This also marks our 100th post! WOW, that hardly seems possible, but here we are. Thanks for reading along with us and sharing in our occasions and ramblings. I really enjoy typing it out for all to see! ha ha

By the way, we leave for Disney in 8 days!!!

Papa the "Guard Dog"

2009-03-12T15:33:00.003-05:00

My dad went to school with Will today. Our school is part of the "Watch Dog" Dad program. Although Papa kept saying he was going to be a "guard dog"! It promotes male rolemodels in the schools. He picked Will up this morning at 7:30a and took him to school, them brought him home this afternoon. Will was so excited that his papa was going to school with him. I know papa is tired, but he made Will's week! Thanks Papa for being a great "guard dog"! We love you and we know the school was appreciates you work too!

2 in one day...

2009-03-05T21:50:00.003-06:00

Okay, I know 2 post in a day. I am seeing some hope in all this stimulus planning and such. No, I didn't vote for the current president, however, I have always been taught to respect the office. I don't agree with everything he is doing, I won't agree with everything he will do, but whose to say I would have if someone else would have won. Anyway, I digress, Mike got his pay check stub today and low and behold, the taxes are lower! We saw an increase in his check due to a decrease in taxes! I know it doesn't sound like much, but over time, it is. So, for now I am going to watch and listen, who knows, maybe in the bigger picture he will do great things for our nation. I choose to focus on positive things, and more money in my pocket is positive as far as I am concerned. I think all things work together for good for those who serve the Lord. I pray our president makes good decisions, he has a lot on his shoulders. So I say, pray for him. Put him on your list of people to uphold in prayer. Nope, you won't always agree, neither will I, but repsect the office.
Be Blessed...

15 Days.....

2009-03-05T13:49:00.002-06:00

I am pretty sure I am as excited as my kiddos! We fly out of Memphis in 15 days to head to Disney World! At this point we are as excited about flying as we are about Disney!! Lots of things yet left to do to prepare, but we are so close.

Mike has an appointment with the Neuro doctor on Monday. He did his surgery in 2007, so we are going to talk to him again about the pain that has resurfaced. He is doing better, but he still hurts. We are praying for healing and believing it to be so. Continue to pray with us.

We are looking forward to a great Spring Break, I think the time away will be good for Mike as well as the rest of us. We are still here, just wanted to check in!
Be Blessed...

Big News...

2009-02-27T16:24:00.003-06:00

Will lost his first tooth today after school. We got home and he said it felt "really loose" todsay, i reached up to feel and it came out! He cried a little because it bled and he HATES blood. Otherwise he is fine! He also found out today he gets to be the prince in the first grade fairy tale program at his school next month! Big day for my biggest boy. I am a little sad, he seems so big to me today and the baby I once knew is starting to fade. He is such a bright spot in our lives and we are thankful for him. I just wish the years hadn't happened so quickly.... Be Blessed...

Happy Anniversary...

2009-02-17T08:32:00.003-06:00

Today is my parents 30th wedding anniversary. To hear the tale, it was cold, snowy and icy on this day 30 years ago. My dad almost didn't make it, his car had trouble and with the kindness of strangers he was set on his way again. The young bride waiting patiently at the church for her young groom to arrive. He did and here we are all 30 years later. 3 daughters, 2 son-in-laws, 4 grandsons, a ton of friends, lots of family and years of trials and triumphs, they made it.

I am so proud of my dad and mom, the road for them as been difficult at times, but they made it, they always do. As they celebrate in Mexico on a cruise ship today, I hope it is all they hoped for, they deserve it! I love you mom and dad, I could not have asked for better!

Been Awhile...

2009-02-11T10:26:00.002-06:00

Okay, so I have been a slacker. I feel like we are so busy! We are planning our vacation and everyone is getting excited. We are taking the kids to Disney World over springbreak! We are counting down the days! 5 and a half weeks and we will be leaving!
I worked Monday and Tuesday all day. Which isn't a lot to some, but I am a part timer and usually only work Monday and Wednesday half days. My mother-in-law has been teasing me, I didn't cook Monday or Tuesday night! I don't know how real working moms do it!

Mike and I are home today, it is his day off as well. His back is really bothering him again, so be in prayer for that. We just don't know what to do and I feel so helpless to do anything for him. We have been through this struggle before and it is no fun at all! Keep praying!

The kids are doing well. School is in full swing and they are both loving most of it. Will is excelling and we are so pleased with where he is. We have a conferences next week, but I don't worry about those. Alex is a little mess and he loves school too. He has a best friend and we hear all kinds of stories from him.

Ok, so that was a random post to update you. I have been doing the 40 days of love, I will share about that this week too. Have a great week and Be Blessed...

Favorite Things...

2009-01-29T16:56:00.003-06:00

My thought is simple today...

Can I tell you that 2 of my very favorite things in the world are walking somewhere and holding the hands of one or both of my boys.

Number 2, doing that same thing holding Mike's hand. Hands are the neatest, most wonderful things in the world! Have you held someone's hand today?

Be Blessed....

Weekend Update with the Stafford's....

2009-01-26T15:39:00.002-06:00

Okay, so I decided I would update about our weekend. This was one of those weeks where my fabulous hubby was home on Friday and Saturday. So Friday we got to spend the day together w.out kids! We went grocery shopping and had lunch, just the 2 of us. I really enjoy these Fridays. I feel so blessed to get to spend that quality time with Mike and truly enjoy it.

On Friday night we watched my cousin Jacob play basketball, ordered pizza, and came home to relax. Saturday was a true miracle, not a plan in sight! We stayed in most of the day and built a fire, watched a couple of movies and enjoyed family time. Sunday was church and party for a dear sweet friend, Happy Birthday Robert! We came home and spent the evening in with the kids preparing for a week of school, church, and work. I enjoyed the time with the men in my life this weekend. The kids grow so fast and if we don't take time for each other we drift and before we know it, we wonder when the last time we talked was. Have a great week, eat supper at the table, if you don't already, ask about each other's day, and don't forget to spend quailty time! Bel Blessed!

2009-01-23T17:53:00.002-06:00

Please join me in praying for sweet baby Harper. I have been following her blog for the past week and would like your prayers added as well.

http://www.kellyskornerblog.com/

History...

2009-01-20T10:07:00.002-06:00

I am listening to the tv. Who isn't this day? No matter who you voted for, the day is historic. I don't know that I have ever paid too much attention. I think it is neat that my kids are in the midst of this day. Alex of course as no idea what is going on, but this is his first Presidental Inaguration. He just wants me to turn Spongebob on! Will is at school but I know they have talked about it. He knows who President Elect Obama is when he sees him on tv. He thinks it is neat that he has kids about his age.
We are in the middle of changes, some good, some bad. I think it is important to watch, to pay attention, to remain involved. I will continue to listen and to watch today, simply because it is history and this is my country and today I am proud.

What a Week!

2009-01-10T08:04:00.002-06:00

Alex has been through the ringer this week! 4 year ck up and shots on Tuesday and allergist on Thursday. He is allergic to peanuts, trees, and grass. They poked his little back 21 times, he cried until he fell asleep in my lap waiting on results. It was pitiful. We still have to do a blood draw on Tuesday to see what the levels are. I think it is called a RAST test. I think after that on Tuesday we will go to lunch at the Purple Cow, his favorite spot!

Doctor's appointments, school started back, work, Mike had a computer issue this week and had to work late. We could get so heavy with the things of each day, but I am resolving to trust more and more in the wisdon of my Saviour. We have to see to all the blessings that occured within the week of crazy. Alex is fine, we are sad that he can't have peanuts and it makes some days tricky, but we can manage. Other kids have it far worse somewhere. We are thankful for jobs to work late at. Working late means we are feeding our family and staying warm in these cold days. I am choosing to look at the positive side, believe me there are days when that seems impossible. I want to go to bed and try again tomorrow, but with some help we will make it.

2009 is in full swing. I am excited about all is holds!

Happy New Year

2009-01-03T16:27:00.002-06:00

So I waited until the 3rd of 2009 to do my first new year post. I have been trying to decide what to write. I decided for this post I will be brief and keep it simple.

We were truly blessed in 2008. The kids are healthy, Mike has a good job and had a stellar year for his back. I had 2 surgeries and recovered wonderfully from both. My calcium in at normal levels and I feel better than I have in a long time. We are blessed. We look forward to what the Lord has planned for us in 2009! Happy New Year!

Happy Birthday Angel Face...

2008-12-28T21:33:00.002-06:00

I can't believe that it has been 4 years since the Lord blessed our lives with Alex. The sweetest blonde haired, blue eyed angel ever placed in a mama's arms. He makes me laugh, he makes me cry, he is such a ray of sunshine to our home. We are so thankful for the blessing that he his. He is going to celebrate with family at one of his favorite places, American Pie. Pizza and cheese dip he says, 2 of his favorites! Happy Birthday to Mommy's Angel Face, may this be a great year!

Merry Christmas

2008-12-23T07:24:00.003-06:00

We start our christmas gatherings tonight, so this will be it for me until after Christmas! So...

From the Stafford's to you and yours, may your days be filled with family and friends. May you laugh and love, Merry Christmas!

3 More Days....

2008-12-22T09:02:00.002-06:00

Okay, so here we are in the last days before Christmas. Are you finished shopping? Me? No, but I will be this afternoon. I have that last minute gift to buy and then we can relax as the day arrives. Will and Alex are SO excited that it is almost here. I look at them and I remember being that little and all the excitement and anticpation that come with this wonderful time of year. They make me smile and enjoy christmas songs in a whole new way.

I feel so blessed to be where we are in our lives. The new year brings exciting possiblities for our family. Will is going to finish his first grade year and turn 7. WOW, 7 years old! Where did the time go? Alex will finish Pre-K and in only a few days turns 4 years old! I can't belive my baby is almost 4! I look at them and stand in blessed amazement at the mightyness of God.

May your season be blessed and may this new yeat bring about it's own possibilities for you and yours! Merry Christmas!

Party Celebration....

2008-12-13T23:04:00.001-06:00

We celebrated Alex's birthday with some of his friends from school and younger cousins. We went to a place in West Little Rock called "Oogles and Googles". It was a great time. He chose a Pirate theme and the kids had a blast. We will celebrate with family on his birthday on the 29th. I can't believe how fast he is growing!

13 days to go....

2008-12-11T21:12:00.002-06:00

Thought I would share some holiday cheer! Enjoy this next few weeks. It takes lots of prep work and will be over before you know it! Be Blessed...

17 Days to Go....

2008-12-08T09:56:00.002-06:00

So, we are almost there. In fact, we are in the middle of the hustle and bustle. We are fighting crowds, looking for the perfect gift or gifts as it were. We are planning meals and making family plans. We are decorating our homes, and our lawns, lights on the house, presents wrapped, and the list goes on. But, are we remembering to slow down? I have decided for the next few weeks, I will simply remind you to slow down. It won't hurt. All the things you still need to do, will still get done. You will get all the things you need and the tree will look great. It will all happen, it always does. Remember that, okay?

Take time and be thankful, kiss your kids, kiss your hubby (or boyfriend). Smile and wave at people, be friendly. Remember the reason for the season. Merry Christmas!

26 Days til Christmas...

2008-11-29T13:17:00.002-06:00

Thanksgiving has come and gone. I am feeling its effects in my clothes! Oh well, the day was wonderful. We spent time with both our families and enjoyed great food and wonderful conversation.

I love this time of year, the songs, the lights, the cold. Yes, I LOVE the cold, I could live in the north and be very content. I love that Christ thought so much of us that He sent His Son to earth to be born. How amazing it is to think about.

We are only 26 days from Christmas. I love the hustle and bustle, all the shoppers, the traffic, the sales. Christmas parties, dinners with families and friends. My goal this season is to slow down and take it all in. I want to enjoy the kids, Mike, my nephews, my neice. I want to spend time with my parents, with my sisters and brothers. I want to enjoy this most precious gift that has been given, Christ was sent for us and He has given time to enjoy all His gifts. Be Blessed...

From the Stafford Family to You...

2008-11-27T11:53:00.002-06:00

HAPPY THANSGIVING! MAY YOUR DEAL BE FILLED WITH FAMILY, TURKEY, AND ALL THINGS WONDERFUL!

Happy Thanksgiving....

2008-11-25T17:14:00.002-06:00

We are going to cut down our Christmas tree tomorrow and decorate with the kids. I am really looking forward to it. I just wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving to you all. It has been an amazing year and I have so much to be thankful for. I had a successful surgery, I feel wonderful.
The kids have not been sick to speak of. Will is doing well in school. We were able to enroll Alex at CAC for PreK. Mike hasn't been down in his back like before this year. We have good jobs, wonderful family, and great friends. We are blessed. May your thanksgiving be a great one. Enjoy your time together and remember to be look for the simple moments... Be Blessed...

Inspired...

2008-11-18T08:24:00.002-06:00

Stephanie inspired me to post a picture of a memory. I found this christmas picture of the boys. This is Alex's first Christmas, he was almost 1 and Will was 3. I'm like Steph, where did the time go?

Missed Opportunities....

2008-11-17T21:44:00.003-06:00

So, yesterday morning, the preacher, my dad, spoke about missed opportunities. You know the ones, you just miss something that is there, take for granted the little things, forget to tell those close to you how much they mean because you always assume they know.

Mike lost an old friend yesterday. He was killed in a car accident. He was young, had a wife, and kids. Yesterday their worlds changed forever. In an instant it was all different. So today, I hugged the kids a little tighter, listened about their days a little closer. I called Mike at lunch to let him know I love him. It is about the simple things. Those small moments we should get lost in. I can't help but think what I would do if it was me at home tonight, wondering about a funeral visitation for my husband or my dad. Did I tell them enough? Do they know how much? I hope so.

Dad, I know you read, I love you! You are a great dad and a wonderful husband to mom. Thank you for being a great papa to my boys. I love you beyond words.

Mike, I love you. You are an amazing husband, a wonderful daddy, and a great provider. You are my world and I am thankful everyday for you!

I hope all my friends know how much I care, but I think this week, I will take the time and tell them. May I encourage you to do the same.
Simple moments, I just don't want to miss an opportunity.
Be Blessed...

8 Years....

2008-11-11T07:03:00.003-06:00

8 Years ago this afternoon, I married my wonderful husband. It was a Saturday, the weather was amazing and everything went off without a hitch... Here we are 8 years, 2 kids, a house, and a couple of cars later and I am more in love with him today than I was then. I find that amazing, I didn't know it was possible to love him anymore than I already did.

Happy Anniversary Mike, you are my very best friend, an amazing father, a great provider and the greatest support I could have ever hoped for. Plus all kinds of things that aren't blog material! I love you my darling....

Always~ Michelle

Election Day...

2008-11-04T16:57:00.003-06:00

won't make my blog today political. I think your

choice is yours alone as is mine. We voted based on our values and beliefs and prayerfully decided who we thought the best man is. I took Alex with me today to vote. He thought this was a neat place, plus at the end you get a sticker. (Alex LOVES stickers!) Here a couple of pictures from Alex's first ever election day! Be Blessed...

Halloween is Over....

2008-11-01T14:29:00.004-05:00

Halloween is finally over and the candy is all gone, yes all gone! I got a great idea from another blogger and last night the "Great Pumpkin" came! He took the candy and left a couple of cool new games and a DVD. The boys were so excited this morning and we haven't had one "can have some candy" all day! I loved this idea and it worked like a charm! Thanks to: http://verybusymomwith4.blogspot.com/ Great blog, check it out sometime!

Here are some pictures of our little trick or treaters! Enjoy!

30....

2008-10-22T15:55:00.003-05:00

So, maybe this isn't so bad.... I have dreaded 30 since I turned 15. Laugh if you want to, but this has been a day I have not looked forward to. My wonderful family did a suprise party last night. It was great. I loved being surrounded by so much love. I worked a few hours this morning and then I shopped. Retail therapy is good for the soul! I had lunch with my wonderful husband, so all in all it has been a good day.

I have reflected today, what do I have to show for being 30? Well, I am the mother of 2 wonderful boys. I am the wife of the most amazing man ever, I have a nice home, I drive a good car. I haven't been to college, and I think that is my goal for my 30's. I would like to go to college. Over all my 20's were good. I married, became a mom, and have made some wonderful friends. I am starting to look forward to the next few years. I will make it, after all, isn't age just a number? Be Blessed...

100 Years...

2008-10-21T13:33:00.003-05:00

This past weekend we went to Tennesee to visit and help celebrate. My great-grandfather turned 100! What an event it was. He was driven to the town hall by his grandsons and escorted in by police with lights and sirens. It was done in true style. We sang ahppy birthday, we listened to him sing love songs of long ago. My kids were with me, my dad had all his girls and all his grandkids with him as we celebrated this truly special day. Here are a couple of my favorte pictures. Be Blessed.... We sure are.

Sweet Moments...

2008-10-14T10:26:00.002-05:00

So we are coming home from the doctor yesterday, Will has strep, and he is quietly riding in the back seat, when the following conversation occurs.
Will: "Mom, did you know that I love God?"
Me:"I thought so Will, but I am really glad to know that you do."
Will: "Mom, it makes me sad that not everybody loves God."
Me: "I know Will, me too."

I was in awe! What a precious child! He went on to tell me about about a boy in his class, we will call him J. J is some what of a hand full. Anyway, Will has been praying for him. He is praying that God will help him make the right choices. He said God answered his prayer one day last week, J went all day with no card pulled. Will was so excited that God heard his prayer. I feel so blessed that God has placed church teachers in Will's life that have him excited about praying for his friends. I always love when my kids teach me something and yesterday was no exception. I am truly blessed...

The High/Low Game

2008-10-09T21:40:00.003-05:00

So at dinner tonight with the kids, Mike worked until 7, so it was just the 3 of us. I decided to teach the boys a new game. We played "high-low". You know the one, you tell a good thing about your day and a not so good thing about your day. I wasn't sure that Alex would "get" it, but thought I would give it a go. Will thought it was a great game. His high was getting to do the different centers in his classroom, he loves that part of the day. I didn't know that, so I am glad I asked. His low was math. He likes it okay, there was just a lot of it. Alex said his "high" was getting his name called at school today for selling magazines, he got his picture taken and all the kids clapped. I didn't know he was that aware of what was happening, but he was able to use it for our game. His low was not getting to pick prizes at Chuck E Cheese, since it was a school trip! I enjoyed listening to them tell me about their day in a new way. I think we will use this a few times a week at dinner, it gets them talking and eating and I like the interaction.
My babies aren't babies anymore. They are becoming boys. Funny, thoughtful, playful, rough housing, wonderful boys. My heart is full and I am so thankful... My high today was them.
Be Blessed...

Grandparents Day for Alex

2008-09-26T17:07:00.003-05:00

Today was CAC's grandparents day. Alex had the honor of having 3 of his grands join him at school for a program, a tour, and lunch. He had a great time and has talked about it all afternoon. I am so thankful that my boys have such wonderful grandparents! In fact, I think they are the best around. Here are a couple of pictures from today. Thanks Terry, Mom, and Dad.. better known as Nana, Mimi, and Papa, for making Alex's day a truly special one!

I am here...

2008-09-25T15:31:00.002-05:00

I haven't posted in a while. Sorry about that. Mike started this whole blog thing! Wonder where he is?

Well, I have healed remarkably well. I saw the surgeon a couple of weeks ago and he was impressed. I am to wear sunscreen for the next year and a big brimmed hat to protect my scar. I feel wonderful and my scar looks better daily. Only a matter of time and it will fade (somewhat) into my the creases of my neck. Thanks for your prayers, they have been answered above and beyond.

We are staying busy around here. Seems that this time of year keeps us running. Will is doing great in school and loving every minute of it. He has great friends and the most wonderful teacher. Alex is doing well also, he likes his teacher a lot, so do we. I am home room mom for both kids so that keeps me running. Two schools, two kids, wow! Moms of more than 2 I applaud you!
Alex got to get in the money machine at school yesterday for selling the most magazines in his class. He managed to grab $3, but they said he tried really hard, so they gave a few extra dollars to go with it! He thinks he is RICH!

Mike is doing well. He is keeping busy with work and us. He does so much for so many and never once complains about any of it. He is such a great dad and I know his folks at work love him. Someone this week described him as loyal, I could not agree more. Well, here we are. Just wanted to let you know we were among the land of the living, just the really busy living! Be Blessed..

People...

2008-09-01T09:09:00.005-05:00

Okay, I am learning all kinds of things from this adventure, if you will. First, I will think LONG and HARD before I stare at someone ever again. I will "smack" my kids when I see them doing it to! I haven't been able to get out much. I can't drive for another couple of days, my reflexes aren't where they should be in my neck, I can't turn very far or very fast.
Mike has gotten me out a couple of times. We went to lunch and Wal-mart, even made it to Kroger. However, it almost kills my soul to get out of the car. For those of you who haven't seen me, I have a pretty gnarly "necklace" across my neck. It looks better everyday, but I can't hide it very well. It has hurt my self confidence. Something that doesn't effect me all that often. I know people are staring and I know it is because they don't know what it is. I wonder if they think I did it to myself?.... Anyway, I will now strive to think about things more carefully before I jump to do them. I am going to make an effort not to stare or gawk because I don't know the circumstances of their scar. Maybe, sometimes, the Lord will give the opportunity to ask. There are miracles learking behind every scar.
I see this to, isn't it just like the devil to take my miracle and turn it around on me? Instead of focusing on that I can talk, I was out of the hospital in a matter of 24 hours instead of 48, and I'm doing well, I am focused on the "ugly" across my neck. I want to learn to focus on the miracle learking mbehind it. Keep praying, I am still getting to where I need to be.
Be Blessed.... And don't stare.... ha ha

Recovery...

2008-08-28T08:20:00.003-05:00

May I start by saying Thanks! Your prayers were heard and I am quickly on the mend. I got to come home yesterday, a full day earlier than we thought. My calicum levels are great, 9.1, which is right in the middle. I will take that anyday!

Alex says the place on my neck looks like a necklace. I told him I didn't think it was a very pretty one, he says, "It is a nice necklace mommy." Oh well, I guess I'll go with him on this. Will doesn't say much, he glances when he thinks I am not looking, but he is okay with hugs and kisses good night, so I can't ask for more than that. Mike has been my hero. He made sure they showed up with post-op meds, and made me mashed potatoes when we got home. He is such a terrific husband and dad. He is even at my home room mom meeting this morning! I simply could not have asked for better!

I am hearing that it only took 45 minutes instead of 1.5 hours to complete the surgery. The gland that is usually 25mg was 400mg and they got it. I am so thankful that it was successful and that now it is over. Also, that talking side effect, didn't really take effect here. I still sound like me and haven't really even been hoarse! They say it may come and go, but so far, I am good!

Thanks again for the prayers. I will blog quite a bit for the next week at least, I can't drive until the neck is not so stiff. Be Blessed...

Tired from all the learning....

2008-08-18T15:04:00.002-05:00

That is what Will told me this afternoon after his first day of First grade. You know he is offically "big". He wanted to know why we had to take him in this morning. He is ready to go through the drop off line and go in to sit with his class, by himself! Needless to say, he did great today. He said he made good choices and stayed on "purple" all day. I knew he would, he has come a long way from the kid we left in kindergarten last year. I can't believe my "babies" are so grown up. Time moves really fast, guess I better slow down and enjoy it.

Alex is a Pre-Schooler

2008-08-13T13:38:00.002-05:00

Alex started Pre-K today. He was totally excited. In fact when he got dressed he was ready to go, although it was about 15 minutes too early! We got to school and he jumpred out lunch box in hand. He walked right into the builiding like he owned the place. He was such a big boy. No crying, no fussing, nothing. He did just what he was suppose to. We are getting close to time to pick him up and I can't wait! I know he had a great day, but I am anxiuos to have him back home. He will be going on MWF each week from 7:45-2:45. It is going to be really good for him. I can't believe he is so big already!

Youth Trip..

2008-07-20T21:42:00.002-05:00

We are home, and I am tired! But we had a great time. I wanted to post this one picture from our trip. We had dinner at Joe's Crab Shack and the waiter was kind enough to get a group shot! We will tell you all about the trip later! Youth- We had a great time! Thanks for being such amazing teenagers! We love you!! Mike and Michelle

Happy Birthday Will....

2008-07-13T20:00:00.002-05:00

I blinked and six years were gone. Tomorrow Will turns 6 years old. I can not believe that the newborn I held in my arms is a little boy. I can not begin to tell you the overwhelming joy his has added to our lives. I stand in awe everyday that God loved me so much, he allowed me this most precious of His creation.

I remember this time in 2002 like it happened yesterday. He was 3 weeks early, but healthy no less. He weighed 7 lbs. 11 ozs. He was the picture of perfection. They placed him in my arms and I thought I would explode. I had no idea that a heart could love something so much. From sleepless nights to now, not one moment would I trade. He is not a "baby" anymore, he shows us that daily. Don't get me wrong, he is trying sometimes, but he is ours and we are so proud. I just wanted to say Happy Birthday to my precious Will. May the Lord Bless you and keep you always!

Be Blessed...

Simple Moments...

2008-07-01T20:41:00.002-05:00

Mike had an engagement after work, and we had the carpets cleaned today, so enlight of wet floors and daddy with plans, I opted for dinner out. We started at Chuck E Cheese, just to play some games and burn some energy. The boys were great and enjoyed themselves. So we headed to Mike's store to say hello and good night, since they would be in the bed when he got home. In the car the boys voted for I-HOP, one of my favorites as well, so off we went. May I tell you, I haven't enjoyed dinner like that in a long time. We talked and laughed, yes with my 5 year old and 3 year old. They told me about the day and all the things they did with Aunt Sharon and the other kids. They were a little loud at times, not misbehaving loud, just boys talking to mommy loud, but they obeyed and they ate their pancakes and eggs like big boys.

Then it hit me, I have big boys.... I saw a mom across the way holding a newborn and for a moment I longed to be that mom once again. The smell of baby lotion and the softness of skin. Only for a moment... Then I realized, I am at a different place. We smell of baseball dust and sweaty crocs. But at the end of the day, I still put my precious angels to bed and kiss them goodnight and thank my Lord that he has given us one more of these most precious, undeserved days. I guess I sometimes miss the days of babies, but I love the days of boys. We have lots of great memories behind us, but oh the ones that lay ahead. It's just simple moments....
Be Blessed...

Home...

2008-06-08T17:50:00.002-05:00

We have been on vacation. We had a wonderful time and the boys loved the beach. Here are a couple of pictures from our travels. I am sure Mike will update later as well. It was really his week off, he just lets us tag along! Really, the time together was amazing and the weather was great the whole week. I am glad to be home though, nothing quite like it. Be Blessed...

The Class of 2020...

2008-05-29T12:38:00.002-05:00

Will graduated from Kindergarten this morning. He was so sweet and sang his little heart out. He has one more day and then summer starts! I can't believe he is going to be in the first grade. The time has gone so fast. Congratulations to my sweet doodle bug!

2008-05-15T15:05:00.002-05:00

I love that at 3 each day my house starts to sound lived in again. Will is in school all day and Alex plays quietly to himself for most of the day. Today Mike is sick, so we have been trying to be extra quiet, but when Will comes home the house lives! Alex becomes more playful, he always is, but something about that big brother... Will talks about his school day and we remember what it was like to be little again. I love that the boys remind me of that daily, just remembering to be like a child.

We are making around here. I went for my check up today from surgery. The doctor says I am healing well and can stop taking my blood pressure medicine. I go back in a month to check on that and we are praying that it will be normal for me. Mike did a great job taking care of me and the boys while I was down for a couple of days recovering. He was a great nurse and housekeeper. The time was good for him and the kids. He is sick today, some kind of stomach thing. Hopefully it will pass quickly. I hate it when he is sick and I know he doesn't care for it either. Just thought I would update. Be Blessed this week, be child like when you can. It is LOTS of fun.

Rambles...

2008-04-07T21:46:00.003-05:00

I am amzed at how quickly a day can get away from you. Seems like an hour ago it was 6:30am.

Today was opening day of Will's baseball season. He was so excited he could hardly see straight! I was equally as excited. I love seeing him play baseball. No matter what the outcome of the game, he has a great time playing and I have a great time watching! He was ready to get in his uniform as soon as school was out. He is so full of life, he reminds me daily to slow down and take it all in.

Alex got to watch him play, really he just wanted to play in the dirt. So with Cousin Sarah by his side, he played until you couldn't see him for the dirt! So much fun. He laughed and played, he reminds me to get dirty every once in awhile, it will wash.

I am in the midst of finding "me". Whoever that is suppose to be. Today I was Will's mom. Keeper of the baseball cleats, maker of lunches, and giver of hugs. Oh how I love to be that person. Today I was Alex's mom. Washer of faces, giver of kisses, and hot-dog maker. I tucked them in bed. Alex needs a kiss, a "five" and a hug. On my way out, "Hey, Mama!", Yes, Alex, "I "lub" you!" "I love you too Alex, to the moon and back."

May you find who you are this week. I have a feeling we have lots to find!

Be Blessed...

Sweetness...

2008-03-24T20:43:00.001-05:00

Will got a new bat today, I found him in the chair like this...
I guess he liked the bat!

Be Blessed...

Boot Camp is Over... BUT....

2008-03-11T10:05:00.002-05:00

Okay, so I had my final weigh in today. I lost about 4 pounds, about 4 inches of my waist and inches from lots of other places. I am starting weight watchers this afternoon. I feel really good and am starting to find my confidence again! I even rejoined the camp for another 4 weeks!

These people, the Brook's were placed in my life for a reason. They are Godly people who help motivate not only physical change, but spirtual as well. She is the most amazing lady. She prays each morning for us to be "Healthy, healed, and whole!" I feel that way after having been with them for 4 weeks. He is a great trainer. A motivator, and a Godly man. He wants us to give our all. I feel so blessed to be in this place in my life.

I just wanted to update everyone. I know you think I am crazy, but hey, it takes all kinds!

Be Blessed.

Snow Fun...

2008-03-07T13:57:00.002-06:00

Finally, some snow! The boys are enjoying watching it fall... and it is still falling. We have been stcuk inside today as Mike took the car to work, but we are enjoying ourselves. We played games and watched TV, all in all lots of fun. I am amazed at the handy work of God. Even in the simple things, I mean, what an amazing thing, SNOW! Who could think of such but a fun, loving God. Don't you know he loves watching us enjoy this white wonderful stuff! I know the kids love it and that my friends is good enough for me! Be Blessed...